Careers Representing America
Military Spouse/Single??
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LaToya Lo
Date: 4/27/2012 2:12 pm
Date: 4/27/2012 2:12 pm
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I am considering an FSO position, but my husband just resigned for another 6yrs with the Military; which means physically I would be a single parent. Would anyone recommend waiting until my spouse is closer to retirement?
Would my child be allowed to accompany me during the first year of training and first tour duty?
Would my child be allowed to accompany me during the first year of training and first tour duty?
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Re: Military Spouse/Single??
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trd
Date: 4/27/2012 2:36 pm
Date: 4/27/2012 2:36 pm
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LaToya, parenting can be a challenge, even with everyone and everything in place. At the end of the day, you know yourself, your child and your options best. You'll need to do the soul-searching.
There are plenty of Moms and Dads in the Foreign Service raising children solo or with their spouses serving elsewhere. Such separation certainly means some real logistical and financial challenges, especially during the Washington training period, but it is possible.
From my experience, I've found some single parents actually get a break once they are abroad, as many postings offer more possibilities for affordable childcare, help around the house and transportation. But the realities vary greatly, so it is hard to generalize.
Whatever you decide, I'd like to say thanks for YOUR service to your country. You and your child have sacrificed along with your husband, and we wish you great success in the years to come.
There are plenty of Moms and Dads in the Foreign Service raising children solo or with their spouses serving elsewhere. Such separation certainly means some real logistical and financial challenges, especially during the Washington training period, but it is possible.
From my experience, I've found some single parents actually get a break once they are abroad, as many postings offer more possibilities for affordable childcare, help around the house and transportation. But the realities vary greatly, so it is hard to generalize.
Whatever you decide, I'd like to say thanks for YOUR service to your country. You and your child have sacrificed along with your husband, and we wish you great success in the years to come.
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